Do you want to know what seems to be the number solution to sustainable intimacy & personal fulfillment in your romantic life? Being “authentic”. When people stray, or get so frustrated that they give up on their relationship, it’s often because they don’t feel heard or appreciated for who they are. We’ve mostly grown beyond survival in our love relationships and now seek a more spiritual communion with our beloved.
Can you speak your truth, from the heart, with compassion? If not, then this might be the best area for you to focus on in your personal evolution. Start slowly and start with low-risk items, like what you really want for dinner, or what you really want to do this weekend. Gradually, if you notice your partner is supportive, you can move on to more sensitive desires.
Having a Dating Coach or Relationship Coach to help you learn and practice healthier behaviors is a good way to avoid the pitfalls of isolating or self-destructive responses when you’re feeling insecure, lonely, angry, confused, or worse. Choosing the right coach means finding a good listener with lots of real world experience, who is easy to talk to.
If you are ready for coaching, call to schedule a complimentary session to see if we are a good fit to work together on your relationship goals: